Lily M. Cooper
The first step to know when to say no to love is to analyze your life. Are you happy with your career? Are you getting the desired salary? Are you financially stable? Do you have the basic requirements to get married? If you are not sure about your answer then you need to analyze your life and check whether you are in a good position to get married.
You can’t decide to live with someone just because he/she loves you and you are ready to take responsibility. If you have all the answers then go ahead with the relationship, but if you are not sure about any of the above-mentioned questions then you need to say no to love.
Don’t feel guilty about saying no to love
As we have seen in movies that there are a lot of people who fall in love without realizing it. There are a lot of people who think that they are not good enough to get married and their parents don’t allow them to get married. They don’t want to lose their only child.
They think that if they refuse to marry then their parents will kill themselves and they will never get another chance to get married. But this is not the case. Your parents will not die, they will be happy that you have finally found a suitable person to get married to and you have rejected their advice to get married.
It is okay to say no to love
If you don’t want to get married then you can say no to love. It is perfectly fine to say no to love. It is your choice. Everyone has their own opinion about marriage. They think that it is a sacred bond and they cannot break it.
But the truth is everyone has their own choice. Some people don’t want to get married at all, some people don’t want to get married within a specific time period. So, you can say no to love.
You can always change your mind
The worst thing that can happen is that you get married to the wrong person. There are many people who don’t want to get married at all. Some people want to get married after a certain time period and they get married to the wrong person. You need to understand that you cannot change the situation and you will always be stuck in that relationship.
Conclusion:
I am sure that these 6 ways to know when to say no to love will help you to say no to love.
