Lily M. Cooper
“I don’t care about your men’s letters,” a man says to his friend as he stands in the middle of the street with his dog. The friend responds, “You should think about how much you mean to me.” This unspoken yet clear statement sends the man on a journey of self-reflection. He finally realizes that he doesn’t care about his men’s letters at all! How much value do they hold for a man?
Men often say: “I don’t care about your mens letters” when what they really mean is “I don’t care about you as a person.” When a man has an unfulfilled desire for companionship, love and acceptance from a woman, he has let his woman go. He may have thought that he was being generous and romantic when he offered her cuddly pink fuzzy animals instead of flowers or candy. Men often forget that the act of offering something non-sexual to a woman can actually be manipulative, deceptive and manipulative.
A man should be willing to say: “I don’t care about your mens letters” when that man is ready and available to say, “I don’t care about your men’s letters.” You don’t have to accept that his lack of concern for you means that he doesn’t value you as much as he thinks. You can be sure that there are still millions of women out there who value more than the opinions of a man whose opinion of them can change by the week. Women appreciate when a man takes the time to say, “I don’t care about your men’s letters but I care about you.” It’s that sincere and true.
If your man has been saying things like: “I don’t care about your mens letters” and then followed it up with an opinion about how women are shallow and that we should all just get along. You should take a moment and ask yourself, have you ever heard a guy say those exact words? Then, consider what the guy is really saying. Have you ever taken any real time to listen and ask yourself what those thoughts mean to you?
What you should be hearing from your man when you tell him: “I don’t care about your men’s letters, but I care about you,” is, “I care about you so much that I want to spend every day of my life loving and caring you. Your kind heart means the world to me and I want to show you how much I love you through everything that I do.” If you want to be taken seriously by a man then you need to show him that you can be that kind of a woman. If you can make a man feel like he can be everything to you, then you have found the key to his heart.
The truth about men and their men’s letters: is that it’s not really about them at all. It’s about you. You need to be able to change a man’s perception of you so that he will see you in a totally new light. Instead of being the girl he always sees as an adult woman who doesn’t know what she’s doing, start looking like a whole new woman today.
If your man has been saying things like, “I don’t care about your men’s letters,” to you, then take a moment and decide that you do.
