Lily M. Cooper
Are there really any signs your ex is pretending to be over you? I think you would agree that most of the time if a guy is cheating, he’s just not showing those signs. But why do I think that? Read on for the answer.
The answer is yes…there can definitely be some very obvious signs your ex is pretending to be over you. In fact, over the years, many of my clients have helped me to get their ex back from their current situation. And while there are definitely some sneaky signs your ex wants to conceal, there are also some more blatant things you can look for. So, let’s take a closer look at some of these signs your ex is pretending to get over you:
– When your ex does all the “spinning” they can about wanting: to get back together and see you, they will often say they have felt emotions that lead up to the “spinning.” Their words, however, can mean anything. For example, maybe they were feeling guilt free after the break-up and then saw an event that reminded them of that. It could be anything that occurred in their lives that reminded them of how much they love you and want to get back together with you. Or, it could be that the event caused them to feel guilt free, and now they’re just trying to “spin” their way out of a “problem.”
– Another one of the clear signs your ex: is pretending to be over you is if they still have feelings for you. It’s hard to know whether your ex feels those feelings for you because they’re not expressing them to you, or if they’re really dating someone else. When your ex starts acting as if they still have feelings for you, especially if those feelings are building up, that means they’re still in love with you and are trying to move on. Again, though, you can’t know for sure whether your ex feels those feelings for you based on what they’re saying to you.
– Finally, one of the more obvious signs your ex: is pretending to be over you when the truth is that they aren’t is if they seem to avoid getting into another relationship. When people break up, they do so to either move on to other people, to try to rebuild their relationships, or to seek happiness elsewhere. When you look at these signs your ex is acting as if they want to get back together with you, that also tells you that they still have feelings for you. Your ex still has feelings for you because they’re trying to move on and get to a better place. They’re not just trying to pretend they don’t know you anymore in an effort to move on.
In conclusion, these are all great signs your ex is pretending to be over you: They have needs and they’re trying to fulfill them, and they’re also using social media, friends, and email to try to rekindle old connections and develop new ones. When you read these signs, you can start to determine whether or not your ex has developed new feelings for you based on what they’re saying to you on their social media accounts, on emails, and in person.
You can also use these same methods to determine whether or not your ex wants to rekindle old connections or to start new ones in your absence.
