Lily M. Cooper
There is a saying that goes like “Love and Happiness are two sides of the same coin”. The true meaning of love is to make the person who you love happy. The other meaning of happiness is to make yourself happy. If you are in a relationship with someone then you will be more likely to feel happy when he/she is happy.
The same logic applies to us when we are in love. If we don’t get happy when our partner is happy then we can say that we have no feelings for him/her. On the other hand, if we are happy and our partner is happy then it means that we are also getting a lot of benefits.
So, if you really want to make your partner happy then you need to make sure that you are happy. This will make him/her happy and he/she will reciprocate you. The most important thing is to be happy in your own way.
Be happy in your own way:
You need to understand that the other person will not understand your happiness. You need to share your happiness with the one you love. Share your happiness with your loved one and let him/her know that you are happy because you know that you are making him/her happy.
For example, if you are going on a vacation with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you want to spend more time together than the normal time, then you can tell him/her that you are happy because you are going on a vacation.
It will be much easier for you to share your happiness if you are happy in your own way. You can also make yourself happy by doing something that you enjoy.
Make yourself happy:
There is nothing wrong in making yourself happy, but you need to do it in a proper way. You need to understand that making yourself happy is not a selfish act. If you are selfish then you are going to make yourself happy and the other person will not get any benefit out of your happiness.
So, you need to make sure that you don’t take anything from the other person. If you really want to make your partner happy then you need to make sure that you are making him/her happy.
Conclusion:
So, if you want to make your partner happy then you need to make sure that you are also happy. If you are happy then it will be much easier for you to make your partner happy. So, make sure that you are happy in your own way.
