Lily M. Cooper
When it’s time to get serious with a man, it’s time to find out if there are signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you. Listen to his words carefully. If those 10 words come up more than often, they are signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you right now, and you must move on with another person who is the better person for you. A relationship can be short-lived if both parties are not in love. Here are 10 signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you:
He has no qualms about letting you know exactly how he feels: If he openly discusses his feelings at every opportunity, he’s not ready to commit. When he talks about someone he’s dating, always listen and take in what he says. That’s a good sign. If he never asks, doesn’t offer, or says no to your questions, he may not feel as though he needs to talk right now.
If he spends every waking minute of his day trying to impress you: he’s not in love with you yet. If that’s the case, the only way he’ll get your phone number is if you say yes to his romantic overtures. He probably doesn’t even know how to go about getting you to notice him. That’s one of the first signs he doesn’t want a relationship. He’s too afraid to try.
When he talks about leaving, he brings up two main reasons: Either he’s moving away because he’s losing interest or he’s just tired and wants to find something else to do. If you pay attention to these signs he doesn’t want a relationship, you’ll be able to spot them. If he mentions excitement or loneliness, those are all pretty clear signals he wants something more than you can provide. He talks excitedly about a future you could not only cherish but enjoy as well. If he’s still giving you that look he gets when he’s thinking about leaving, he’s still not ready to head out on his own.
So what are the other signs he doesn’t want a relationship? Sometimes he’s just not honest. If you want to continue a healthy relationship, you have to be totally honest with him. Make sure he knows exactly what you feel for him and isn’t making any misleading statements just to see how it works. If you don’t talk to him directly, he won’t really be aware of your intentions unless you tell him.
Another sign he doesn’t want a relationship: is if he puts you in stressful situations. When he’s concerned about you, it’s because he feels you’re a part of his life. If you allow him this kind of access, he’s going to use it to manipulate you. He may even try to force you into a certain situation where he can control your decisions.
You need to be aware of all these signs so that you can protect yourself.
